26. “Two roads diverged in a wood and I – I took the one less traveled by.” – Robert Frost

Saturday, September 29, 2012

My Host Family

I have the unique opportunity to learn about two new cultures while in Brazil.  My host mother and grandfather are Chilean.    However, this presents an added difficulty for learning Portuguese.-an accent.  For example, all words in Portuguese that start with the letter r are said like an h began the word instead.   Let’s take the word radio for example.  My host grandfather says rah-dio, whereas the correct way to say it is hah-geo.  (I hope that makes sense)  So in addition to trying to learn new words everyday from my host family, I also have to verify that I’m saying them correctly with native speakers.  My host family is very different from my blood family, however nonetheless I really enjoy living with them and I truly apreciate that that they opened up their home for me.  

Culture Sharing:  What better dessert than s´mores?  Well...in this case roasted marshmallows and nutella...

 My oldest host brother is Giancarlo.  He’s 19 years old-so only one year older than me.  Right now he studies two nights a week to become a chef, and works in a restaurant on saturdays.  Yeah, I know I was lucky to get this family-yum yum :).  He recently acquired his drivers license, so now he wants to drive all the time-though I can’t quite understand why, because the driving here is absolutely crazy.  But more on that later...

 My host mother’s name is Annamaria.  She was born in Chile but moved to Brazil with her 2 sisters, her brother, and her father.  She’s a dentist and has her own practice.  It’s a really small office downtown in Campo Grande.  She cooks very well-especially soup and mashed potatoes.  I don’t know what it is about them, but I just adore the mashed potatoes here!  Every night she and my host grandfather watch the soap operas.  There’s one in particular that they never miss.  It’s called Avenida Brazil.  Personally, I think it's ridiculus; but I watch it anyways to be a part of the family.

My host father’s name is Roberto.  He’s been a taxi driver for the past five years, and he really enjoys it.  He’s a people person, that’s for sure; but most everyone in Brazil seems to extroverted.  People talk to others and give them a hug as if they know each other forever.  But then when they go away and you ask who that was they say they’ve never seen that person in their entire life!   He’s very funny, always cracking jokes. When he laughs his eyes light up more than anyone I’ve ever seen before.  But he’s also a very sensitive guy.  He’s not afraid to cry in front of others, and doesn’t deny that he cried while watching Marley and Me.
My other host brother is Nicholas and he’s 17, though I think he looks older.  But I think that about the majority in Brazil.  Especially with the young girls, because they were a lot of makeup here.  I spent about two weeks with him here before he boarded a plane to head for York.  He’s studying at Central and seems to be enjoying it.  I really appreciated the time I had with him.  He definitely helped me feel comfortable and at home here in many ways.  He introduced me to his friends from school which have now become my friends.  But I’ll tell you more about that in a later post.  He’s an affectionate guy and it’s difficult for him to adjust to the American culture.  


My host grandfather’s name is Silvio.  He and his second wife Celina will be my next host family.  However I won’t be moving far, just next door!  He’s retired now, but was an engineer at one time.  He actually held many different jobs.  He speaks a basic English that he picked up while working in Chile for an American company.  Besides Nicholas, he is the only one who speaks any English.  He’s a devoted member of Rotary and is involved in many different activities with Rotary.  He’s a serious man but loves his family-that much is obvious.  


Annabella, my host sister is 12.  Sometimes she acts much older and wears heels and makeup, yet other times she wants to remain a child.  She’s just trying to figure out who she is right now.  As the baby of the family she’s used to getting what she wants, but the family seems to be trying to wean her off of that.  She’s very excited to have a sister, so it seems that no matter what I do I’m perfect to her.  Wow, that’s certainly different!  Haha.  It’s been a completely different experience to say the least.  Having a sister that is.  My brothers back home never picked out my clothes, painted my nails or did my makeup.  I never was really concerned with these things before, but Annabella certainly is!  She plays handball at school and loves talking on the phone with her friends.  More or less she’s the average pre teen girl.  


Wednesday, September 26, 2012


   Wow.  I've already been in Brazil for two whole months-that's incredible!  I have so much to tell you all that I don't dare to write it all at once.  Until I catch up with all the information I'm going to post fairly frequently.  Afterwards however, I think that once a week is probably sufficient.    

  Where to begin???  I guess where I’m living is a good place to start.  I’m living in the state of Rio de Janeiro which is on the Atlantic coastline in Brazil and more or less in the middle of the country if you’re analyzing it from North to South.  However, I am not living in the city of Rio.  I’m about an hour west of the city-I’m told that without traffic you can make it there in 30 minutes-but I have yet to do so and am still skeptical.  The city that I’m living in is named Campo Grande.  It’s a much bigger city than York, that’s for sure!  Campo Grande was an industrial area so it’s not the prettiest of places to be, but I still like it.    

    Compared to the other exchange students, I’m out here on my own.  The others are living closer together in Tijuca, Impanema…or in Petropolis which isn’t technically in Rio but they are included in our Rotary events.  At first I was disappointed about this. I saw their pictures together and I wished to be there with them.  But then I came to the realization that I´m in Brazil and I should make friends with Brazilians!  Additionally, my Portuguese is a lot stronger than theirs at the moment.  I think that there are two major factors contributing to this.  The first is that I’m not going out with them and speaking English because I’m not close to them.  The second is that my host family doesn’t speak English.  All of the other exchange students speak at least a basic English.  This is pretty common in Brazil.  In the wealthier parts of the country is where you will generally find the best English speakers.  It’s actually rather interesting, even the exchange students whose native language is not English speak English well.  I think it might be a requirement from their countries to speak English for exchange, though I am not certain.   

       As far as my Portuguese… It’s getting better and better every day.  I can understand almost everything now-because a lot of words sound similar.   However, I have to concentrate, I can’t just casually listen.  As far as basic conversational Portuguese goes, I have that down pat-without needing to translate anything in my head.  I don’t think in Portuguese yet, but that day is coming.  Yesterday I was at my host brother’s school (Nicholas) for an informational fair.  He’s in the US now on exchange, but I made friends with his classmates before he left, so I went.  It was actually the first time I saw them for about a month, and they commented that my Portuguese is much, much better.  After talking with them yesterday I realized that at times I was thinking in only Portuguese.  So I’m definitely on the right track.      

        I still have my days where I miss the USA, but I’m beginning to love Brazil as well.  There are differences of course, but different is neither right nor wrong, it’s simply different.  I will write more tomorrow-I’m sure everyone doesn’t want to read a book right now!Love from,Kathryn

     P.S. If you wish to write me a letter-which by the way I would adore! Remember it's international mail and you have to take it to the post office and buy a special stamp.  My address is as follows:

Kathryn Fogleman
Rua Gutemberg 107
Campo Grande
Rio de Janeiro RJ/ 23080-390
Brazil